How to Be Polite in Portugal: Etiquette Made Fun for Kids

When learning a new language, it’s just as important to learn about how people greet and treat each other. In Portugal, polite habits are a big part of the culture, and while they may seem similar to American customs, there are a few fun differences that can help kids make new friends more easily.

Greetings: Kisses, Hugs, and Handshakes

People in Portugal are known for being warm and friendly. Between friends and family, it’s common to greet each other with two kisses on the cheek one on each side. This is most common between women or between men who know each other well.

If you’re meeting someone for the first time, however, a handshake is the polite and proper way to say hello.

Using “Please” and “Thank You”

Just like in English, polite words go a long way in Portuguese. Remember to say:

• Por favor – Please

• Obrigado (for boys) or Obrigada (for girls) – Thank you

Even if you make small mistakes while speaking, people in Portugal will appreciate your effort—as long as you are kind and polite!

Table Manners: A Few Fun Rules

Mealtimes in Portugal come with some unique table habits. Here’s what you might notice:

• People usually eat with the fork in the left hand and the knife in the right hand and they keep them that way throughout the meal.

• When you’re finished eating, you place your fork and knife side by side on the plate. This signals to the waiter or host that you’re done.

• Crossing your fork and knife on the plate is considered impolite, although not very offensive. It’s just something to avoid if you can!

When in Doubt, Just Ask!

One of the best things about Portuguese people is that they are happy to share their customs with others. If you’re ever unsure what to do, watch what others are doing or politely ask questions. They’ll be glad to help you learn.

Learning Culture with Dinolingo

At Dinolingo, we believe that learning a language is more than just words, it’s about exploring how people live, eat, and greet each other. When children learn polite habits alongside Portuguese words, they become better communicators and more curious about the world.

Want to try saying “por favor” and “obrigado” today? You’re already on your way to speaking Portuguese like a local!